Feelgood Food Ideas

Isadora’s Expecting: When is a babymoon not a babymoon?

Tuesday, December 4th, 2012

Guest blog: Isadora Watts is a London-based writer and consultant, expecting her first baby early next year.  See her blog about her transatlantic adventures  here. Isadora is guest blogging for our Feelgood Motherhood blog as she works out the best ways to stay sane and stylish throughout her pregnancy. Let us know what you think about Isadora’s posts on our Twitter feed or follow her on Twitter here.  Did you manage a babymoon?

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Did you babymoon? Do you plan to? I’d like to babymoon, I really would. I think it’s a lovely idea. It’s all about getting some R&R, and spending quality, grown up, maybe even romantic, time with your partner. A much needed recharge before the baby arrives and shatters sleep and date nights for – well, a few weeks, if not for ever.

My husband (TLOML)’s mum lives inFlorida, and our baby due 7 weeks after Christmas: a December jaunt to the sunshine state could be perfect. We could spend Christmas with my mother-in-law, and then sneak a couple of nights in a glamMiamihotel. I could really make some waves on that beach with my enormous beach, that’s for sure.

Annoyingly we are grounded at the moment, while TLOML’s passport is held by the Border Agency for visa processing. Which means our babymoon options are a bit limited.

We will visit my family, in Yorkshire. But I’m not sure that playing parlour gamess, watching ‘family friendly films’ and eating Roses by the handful counts as a babymoon. It is about more than a change of scene, you know?

I was dying for the sunshine that change of scene would have given me. But maybe I can take consolation in a lovely country house weekend instead. Instead of sunbathing and shrimp cocktails I’ll settle for afternoon tea in front of a roaring fire, and long walks around frosty grounds. Come to think of it, if it’s all about enjoying posh hotel delights, we don’t even really need to leave London. I could just look on Lastminute for a hotel package bargain and hop on a bus to get there.

What do you think, readers? Is a babymoon still a babymoon if it doesn’t involve sunshine and a long journey?

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Food for thought (food for feeding)

Tuesday, October 18th, 2011

As we’re constantly on the quest to find ways to make motherhood feel good at Bb London, food does feature a lot on our minds (and a bit on the blog). And as we’re particularly concerned with new mothers then we do also talk about breastfeeding. So I though that this week we should bring the two things together… boobs and grub, all in one neat blog post.

When I was breastfeeding, I remember that cake was a very important part of my diet.* I had the most enormous constant craving for cake which I’m sure was my body telling me that it was a good idea (when pregnant it was broccoli and milk which seemed much more logical).

This week’s gorgeous guest poster is the clever Elena Cimelli who has written some sensible advice on nutrition when nursing. Here’s her personal (and professional) thoughts on it.

As ever, please let us know your thoughts by commenting below or on Twitter.

Sophie

*Come to think of it, cake still is a very important part of my diet…. hmm.

Breastfeeding: (lactogenic) food for thought by Elena Cimelli, author of ‘The Contented Calf’.

Breastfeeding is such a personal and emotive topic, with every woman having a unique experience of and feelings towards it. It is almost impossible to write about, other than to relate what happened to you. That said, I still hesitate every time I put finger to keyboard. But here goes:

I have to say when it came to breastfeeding, I was incredibly lucky. Fifteen minutes after my daughter was born, she was latched on to my breast, where she stayed for much of the next 10 months. I was able to successfully breastfeed exclusively for six months (both on the breast and pumping for bottles) and continue on for another four once we started to introduce solids. It wasn’t all plain sailing.  I had three terrible bouts of mastitis – one of which saw me hospitalised overnight on IV antibiotics! But, overall it went well, I had enough milk and I’m very grateful.

I can’t say for sure why I had a good experience while it can be so very difficult for others. I think part of it has to be that I had no expectations at all. I was totally formula fed, and have managed to make it past 30 OK. I’m not particularly sickly, I don’t believe my iQ has been impaired and I haven’t ended up in therapy with “my mum didn’t love me” issues! So perhaps that lack self-pressure helped?

Elena and Evie - sleeping on a full belly

Elena and Evie - sleeping on a full belly

Breast milk production and breastfeeding is a complex process. Indeed, in their book “Making More Milk” Diana West and Lisa Marasco introduce the concept of ‘The Milk Supply Equation’:

1. Sufficient glandular tissue
2. Intact nerve pathways AND ducts
3. Adequate hormones AND hormone receptors
4. Adequately frequent, effective milk removal and stimulation

=      GOOD MILK PRODUCTION

Maybe it was just luck that meant that all the above factors were in place for me?

Looking at the equation more closely, there’s not much we can do about the first two – that is just luck of the draw. And if a new mum has breastfeeding problems, Midwives, Health Visitors and Breastfeeding Counsellors can help with the fourth point.

But what do most new mums really know about hormones? And in particular, what do they know about the role diet can play in lactogenesis (the process of making milk)? Interestingly enough, when I look back at what I was eating while I was breastfeeding, a lot of the food was lactogenic – foods that promote breast milk production. Perhaps this helped me too?

The process of making milk (lactogenesis) involves two hormones – prolactin and oxytocin. Prolactin stimulates milk production and oxytocin promotes the ‘milk-ejection reflex’ or ‘let-down reflex’.

In terms of lactogenic foods, one group helps increase the level of prolactin in our bloodstream. With regards to oxytocin, stress hormones suppress its production. However, eating meals and snacks throughout the day can help reduce stress levels, as hunger can induce stress. There are also foods thought to help remedy problems with let-down or flow, which Hilary Jacobson lists in her book “Mother Food”.

You can find out much more about breast milk production and diet at www.contentedcalf.com/breastmilk, plus in the two books mentioned. It really is a very interesting topic, and definitely worth being aware of if you’re breastfeeding. The Contented Calf Cookbook includes a list of lactogenic (and anti-lactogenic) foods. But if you’d like some inspiration of how to include lactogenic foods in your diet straight away, just visit the recipe section of the Contented Calf website, and simply register to get more exclusive recipes, absolutely free!

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Note from Sophie: You can also see my mum’s best cake recipe for another great treat when feeding!

Rice pudding rocks

Saturday, November 27th, 2010

Today it is snowy outside. It looks beautiful but it is absolutely perishingly cold. We’ve had a fantastic day though, dressing ourselves up in MichelinMan-style layers  and going out sledging as a family. The result is that we have rosy cheeks and a healthy appetite. So I feel the need for a proper pudding today. 

Rice pudding is a dish which I had never cooked myself until recently when my mother reminded me that it had been one of my favourite puds when little.  Here’s her simple recipe which is classic feelgood fare for a winter weekend. It’s ridiculously easy to make.   This recipe is technically low-fat (although with plenty of sugar) but you could pop in some evaporated milk for a bit more creaminess and a retro feel.

I’m popping it in the oven while I bathe my girls and put them to bed and then it’ll be ready for supper for my other half and me. I’ve made enough for my daughters tomorrow as well (the sugar in it makes it not suitable for tiny ones).

It’s not the world’s most aesthetically beautiful pud  but teamed with some gorgeous stewed fruit or a good jam it’s awesomely ‘feelgood’ food.

Great for a pregnant or new mum needing sustenance. And ideal for a busy (or like me, slightly lazy) mum who wants nice food with minimal effort.

The Recipe. Time 10 mins prep, 2 hours to cook . Difficulty level: Easy as pie.

Ingredients (serves 4):

  • 100g pudding rice
  • 50g sugar – make it 75g if you have a sweet tooth.
  • 700ml semi-skimmed milk (substitute some for evaporated milk if you feel indulgent).
  • Choose one or all of these for taste: A little nutmeg, something vanilla’y (a pod or 3 drops of essence), a smidgeon of lemon zest. If it’s for grown-ups only you could add a bit more lemon zest for a lovely lemony pudding taste.
  • To make:

    Heat your oven to 150 degrees. Pop some butter onto a good Le Crueset or equivalent baking dish (about 850ml). I like to cook it covered for the first hour and then uncover as the browned bit on top is delish. Wash and drain the rice and put into the dish with the sugar and milk. Give it a bit of a stir and  in a maybe a vanilla pod or drop of essence. It’s great with a small amount of lemon zest too. Sprinkle with a little nutmeg on top.

    Cook for 2 hours. Eat with jam or compote – ideal in front of a roaring fire.

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    PS And we’ve just seen this rather lovely Nicaraguan version with cinnamon and condensed milk posted on the brilliant Bitchbuzz. That looks seriously gorgeous.