Pregnancy

Wrap Star: Why the wrap dress is a smart choice for maternitywear (and how to wear it)

Wednesday, February 20th, 2013

Unless you live on Planet Zarg, you probably didn’t miss the flurry of excitement yesterday over the appearance of the Duchess of Cambridge in a pretty wrap dress, perfectly accessorising a burdgeoning Royal Bump.

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It came as no surprise to see her choosing a maternity wrap dress. At Babes with Babies London we’ve seen our Magic Dress fly off the shelves this year and it’s had rave reviews from our customers.

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A  well-cut wrap dress does wonders as a maternity wardrobe staple.  Here’s why:
Six reasons why a good wrap dress is a maternity wardrobe hero…

1. It’s fabulously flexible. You can wear it in the early stages of pregnancy, just as other things are starting to dig in. You can also pop a camisole under a good one and wear it when you’re the size of a bus and about to pop. And, what makes it a brilliant investment piece is that it’ll then be perfect postnatally (and easy to breastfeed in).

2. It’s comfy. A dress is a godsend in pregnancy – doesn’t ride up or down, doesn’t dig in. And, no matter how much you want to look good, it’s important to feel comfortable as well as you cope with the not-insignificant task of growing a new human.

3. It’s very versatile. A cute little wrap dress can be worn by day, with strappy sandals in the summer or toughened up with boots and a biker jacket in colder weather. It can be smart enough for work, teamed with neutral accessories but it can be dressed up for a party or special occasion with statement jewellery and some look-at-me-shoes.

4. It’s shape enhancing. The beauty of the wrap is that it can be tied to give you a shape (bow above the bump later) rather than the ‘marquee’ look of some more tent-like dresses. It can allow your bump to be on display in a pretty, flattering way.

5. It’s bust beautifying. The wrap dress can also help stop a bigger bust looking like a shelf and gives a good shape to a bigger-than-normal décolletage.

6. It’s elegant but still a little foxy. Accessorised well (see tips below) the wrap dress can be the sort of dress that will please the mother-in-law because it’s non-tarty and a pretty frock… while also being feminine and foxy enough to stop you feeling frumpy. It shows off Kate’s gorgeous legs as well.

Accessory-watch: The beautiful personalised ‘You are My World’ necklace from Bb is perfect with the neckline on a wrap dress.

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WARNING!

There are two risks with wrap dresses. Be careful not to choose a cheap, badly cut one. Too thin material/too badly cut and you’ll show all your lumps and (non baby) bumps and end up feeling a bit too exposed.

There is also a danger that wrap dresses can be a little, well, mumsy.

Although at Bb London we like florals in the right place and in moderation, we’d recommend steering clear of les fleurs with a wrap dress to avoid looking like you should be making tea at the village summer fete.

Top tips for finding a non-mumsy wrap

a)      choosing a cool print  a la Kate

b)      going for classic jet black – it’s a winner for slimming and gives it a tougher edge. Plus, it makes your choice even more versatile (great for work or nights out)

c)       rocking this seasons hottest trend – monochrome and choosing our black and white ‘Happy Dress’.

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The Happy Dress: Black and white and gorgeous all over. Add a cool leather bracelet or a necklace similar to Kate’s, a little cami and a big smile. It’s a wrap!

 

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To laze about, or not to laze about?

Thursday, February 14th, 2013

Guest blog: Isadora Watts is a London -based writer and consultant, expecting her first baby in February.  See her blog about her transatlantic adventures  here. Isadora is guest blogging for our Feelgood Motherhood blog as she works out the best ways to stay sane and stylish throughout her pregnancy. Let us know what you think about Isadora’s posts on our Twitter feed or follow her on Twitter here.

Readers, I have a dilemma. On the one hand, I know that staying fit and active will make giving birth easier. Apparently women who exercise two or three times a week have shorter labours. On the other hand, I’m told it’s a good idea to rest and store up sleep, and the sofa really is terribly comfy right now.

And there’s a big part of me that wants to make the most of my freedom to enjoy dining out, long lunches, and spontaneous drinks while I still have it. But there’s an equally large part of me that wants to be quiet, and still, and watch trashy TV.

This is the conundrum of the final few weeks of pregnancy I suppose.

My solution is to both be active, and to rest, in equal measure. Which basically means something else has to give.

So I’m designating the last few weeks of my pregnancy a chore-free zone. I’ll do the exercise that I enjoy, but if it’s cold and rainy outside I won’t feel remotely guilty about skipping that walk I planned. I’ll go out for dinner with my husband and with good friends, but if it’s a restaurant I don’t like, an inconvenient location, or someone who isn’t always brilliant company I will play my pregnancy card and stay home. And I’ll empty the dishwasher if I’m, well, ‘feeling up to it’. But if my body tells me it wants me to lie down and watch America’s Next Top Model, I won’t argue with it.

Practically prescribed for pregnancy

It’s good for me…

 

What’s your advice for the  last month of pregnancy: stay active and be social, or rest and put your feet up?

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Isadora’s Expecting: Pregnancy Peers

Monday, February 4th, 2013

Guest blog: Isadora Watts is a London -based writer and consultant, expecting her first baby in February.  See her blog about her transatlantic adventures  here. Isadora is guest blogging for our Feelgood Motherhood blog as she works out the best ways to stay sane and stylish throughout her pregnancy. Let us know what you think about Isadora’s posts on our Twitter feed or follow her on Twitter here. Who are, or were, your celebrity pregnancy peers?

Over the past few months, as my belly expanded, so did my appetite for images of pregnant celebrities, or generally gorgeous people wearing lovely maternity clothes. I felt it was important research, to help me put together a good maternity wardrobe.

Of course, the practical value of seeing what Natalie Portman wore to the 2012 Oscars is somewhat limited. But I came to love surfing for chic bumps, and quickly made it part of my daily routine.

As a result I quickly became disproportionately interested in celebrities whose bump is roughly the same size as mine. I call them my celebrity pregnancy peers, and I keep close tabs on them, regularly naming and shaming ‘style heroes’ and ‘bump blunders’ on my Pinterest board.

Thank goodness for maternity leave: Pinterest is a full time job

While comparing notes with friends who are pregnant at the same time can be practical, it also leads to a lot of conversations about heartburn and other unpleasant physical side effects. Whereas my lovely celebrity peers are just providing me lots of images, what to wears and what not to wears.

Out of interest, my celebrity pregnancy peers are:

  • Fearne Cotton: her determinedly hipster, indie chic look has been providing me plenty of sartorial food for thought.

  • Jenny Frost: not someone I was previously terribly interested in, but until the birth of her twins recently, she put plenty of bump shots online, and I enjoyed her NHS blog posts too.

  • Amber Rose: to be honest, I don’t even know what she’s famous for. She wears some crazy outfits – and some good ones too – and is forever taking ‘selfies’ and posting them. An excellent member of my celebrity peer group.

  • Lily Allen: she was rather less present on the celeb gossip sites (to her credit, I suppose). Still, the odd glimpse of her in a fabulous outfit meant she was never far from my Google list.

  • Kristen Bell: she looks about how I feel, ready to pop. With the red carpet season upon us, I have high hopes for some more strong gown appearances from Kristen.

They’re a diverse group, and the only thing they have in common is that I guestimated their due date to be around the same time of mine. I suspect I’ll be following them and their children for many years to come.

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Fabulous freebie alert

Monday, January 28th, 2013

Cheer up SS2013 by toting one of the hottest baby changing bags around! We love Il Tutto nappy bags which are incredibly practical but also rather beautiful.

So as a sizzling pre-Valentine’s treat, we’re running a little competition to give away this ravishing red babychanging bag worth £199. To enter, simply head over to our Facebook page for more information.

Win this red designer baby changing bag

 

Ts and Cs (yada yada yada): Winner will be selected at random and will be announced on the evening of 01/02/13. Prize is not transferable and can not be redeemed for cash. No purchase necessary. Delivery included (UK only – it can be sent overseas but postage will be required).

Tip! You get more entries by tweeting about the competition or by commenting on this blog post.

So…

We’d love to know the answer to a simple question (which will also get you another entry into this competition).

What’s the best bit of advice on being pregnant that you’ve received?

Add your comments here and let us know!

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Mama Fox!

Friday, January 11th, 2013

It’s always fantastic to hear positive customer feedback. We deliver to the US and internationally & this week we’ve had some great comments from a US customer.

We were delighted to hear that mum-to-be and Fox News Anchor Laura Ingle loves our  maternitywear : ‘Finally, I’ve found something I really love! Everything is great!’

Appearing in front of a TV camera is a real torture-test for maternitywear. We’ve all heard how the camera adds pounds so when you’re six months pregnant, you want maternity fashion that really flatters you. So it’s particularly great to have this feedback from the gorgeous Laura who has been wearing our maternity clothes throughout her pregnancy.

Here’s a photo of Laura in action, showing her wearing our ever popular Chloe maternity top  on air.

 

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We think Laura looks fantastic in this best-selling top with the crossover detail and pretty ruched mini-sleeves, which are perfect for keeping cool and looking fantastic under those studio lights.

NEWSFLASH!  And the really good news is thatyou can pick up your own Chloe top at half price at the moment in our Big Winter Sale.

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Isadora’s Expecting: New Year’s Resolutions

Saturday, December 29th, 2012

Guest blog: Isadora Watts is a London-based writer and consultant, expecting her first baby early next year.  See her blog about her transatlantic adventures  here. Isadora is guest blogging for our Feelgood Motherhood blog as she works out the best ways to stay sane and stylish throughout her pregnancy.Let us know what you think about Isadora’s posts on our Twitter feed or follow her on Twitter here.  Are you making any resolutions for 2013?

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2012 began, like every year in the past two decades, with me resolving to talk less, listen more, eat less and exercise more. Nothing particularly groundbreaking there, I know. And yes, I also know it’s a little tragic that I made the same resolutions for the past twenty years.

2013 will be different. We are about to become parents and surely that means we need to raise our game? We need to start setting an example for our child, and be more responsible citizens too.  Also we need to be more vigilant about germs. And yet, I don’t want parenthood to change us all together. I’d like to retain a little romance, for starters.

I think it’s about time I drew up my list:

1. I will swear less, be more articulate, and use more formal language. Especially when the baby is ear-wigging. No-one likes a child who speaks only in slang and curses.

2. I will never call my husband ‘Daddy’ unless the baby is in the room and fully – well, as full as a newborn can be – involved in the conversation.

3. If I see someone failing to pick up after their dog, rather than rolling my eyes in silence, I will tut loudly.

4. I will wipe clean all kitchen surfaces relentlessly, and wash my hands whenever I come in from the dirty world outside my front door.

5. Date nights. Once a fortnight as an absolute minimum.

I think 5 is enough. Which means there’s no room left for my usual eating/ talking less resolution. Ah well, a change is as good as a rest.

Keeping these in January will be a walk in the park. As for February, when the baby comes, well that remains to be seen. I shall keep you posted.

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Isadora’s Expecting: When is a babymoon not a babymoon?

Tuesday, December 4th, 2012

Guest blog: Isadora Watts is a London-based writer and consultant, expecting her first baby early next year.  See her blog about her transatlantic adventures  here. Isadora is guest blogging for our Feelgood Motherhood blog as she works out the best ways to stay sane and stylish throughout her pregnancy. Let us know what you think about Isadora’s posts on our Twitter feed or follow her on Twitter here.  Did you manage a babymoon?

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Did you babymoon? Do you plan to? I’d like to babymoon, I really would. I think it’s a lovely idea. It’s all about getting some R&R, and spending quality, grown up, maybe even romantic, time with your partner. A much needed recharge before the baby arrives and shatters sleep and date nights for – well, a few weeks, if not for ever.

My husband (TLOML)’s mum lives inFlorida, and our baby due 7 weeks after Christmas: a December jaunt to the sunshine state could be perfect. We could spend Christmas with my mother-in-law, and then sneak a couple of nights in a glamMiamihotel. I could really make some waves on that beach with my enormous beach, that’s for sure.

Annoyingly we are grounded at the moment, while TLOML’s passport is held by the Border Agency for visa processing. Which means our babymoon options are a bit limited.

We will visit my family, in Yorkshire. But I’m not sure that playing parlour gamess, watching ‘family friendly films’ and eating Roses by the handful counts as a babymoon. It is about more than a change of scene, you know?

I was dying for the sunshine that change of scene would have given me. But maybe I can take consolation in a lovely country house weekend instead. Instead of sunbathing and shrimp cocktails I’ll settle for afternoon tea in front of a roaring fire, and long walks around frosty grounds. Come to think of it, if it’s all about enjoying posh hotel delights, we don’t even really need to leave London. I could just look on Lastminute for a hotel package bargain and hop on a bus to get there.

What do you think, readers? Is a babymoon still a babymoon if it doesn’t involve sunshine and a long journey?

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Isadora’s Expecting: Perfect timing, if I say so myself

Friday, November 30th, 2012

Guest blog: Isadora Watts is a London -based writer and consultant, expecting her first baby early next year.  See her blog about her transatlantic adventures  here. Isadora is guest blogging for our Feelgood Motherhood blog as she works out the best ways to stay sane and stylish throughout her pregnancy.Let us know what you think about Isadora’s posts on our Twitter feed or follow her on Twitter here. Are you enjoying a winter pregnancy?

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Until a surprise hand-me-down maternity quilted jacket came my way recently, I was rather down on the winter pregnancy. Wouldn’t it be nicer to be blooming while nature does the same? And to enjoy newborn cuddles on a picnic rug in the sunshine? Plus, cold weather maternity wear just seems so much more expensive: winter coats and jumpers are a much more significant investment to make than vests and sundresses. And they are garments where quality matters, and cheap shows.

On reflection, it doesn’t need to be so very expensive. The freebie coat was a great start, but when I looked closely at my winter wardrobe I found plenty of oversized jumpers that will see me through at least for another month or two. I don’t know about you but my winter clothes are more likely to be loose and floppy than my skimpy summer wardrobe. And while tailored clothes need to be the right size to look, well, right, loose jumpers are rather more forgiving.

So now I’m looking on the bright side of my February due date. Not for me the overheated, pink-faced fate of a lady who hits full term in the hottest months of the year. Instead I can spend the later months of my pregnancy cocooning my soft, round body in many thick, cosy layers. I can stay home eating soup, instead of having to unveil my bump by a swimming pool. No-one even needs to know about what’s happened to my previously toned upper arms! And the pressure to keep up perfect pedicures is off, since I can hide my feet in winter socks.

Whether I’ll feel this way when the winter party season kicks off remains to be seen. I seem to remember the very wise Sophie passing on some tips on how to handle that in an earlier post, so will refresh my memory before December rolls around.

‘Your bottom’s got bigger? I hardly noticed, so distracted was I by your crazy legwarmers and scarf!’

Slightly bonkers layers of scarf, cardy and legwarmers distract from my burgeoning boobs.

Isadora’s Expecting: Belt it!

Thursday, November 8th, 2012

Guest blog: Isadora Watts is a London -based writer and consultant, expecting her first baby early next year.  See her blog about her transatlantic adventures  here. Isadora is guest blogging for our Feelgood Motherhood blog as she works out the best ways to stay sane and stylish throughout her pregnancy.

Let us know what you think about Isadora’s posts on our Twitter feed or follow her on Twitter here. Have you consigned your belts to the back of your wardrobe for the rest of your pregnancy?

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I’m over halfway through my pregnancy and rather proud of my neat little bump. It’s still not quite big and round enough for people to give up their seat on the bus for me without offending me. I’m okay with that, as I am still well able to stand up on the bus. Long may it last!

But the feedback TLOML gave me on Saturday was not so easy to deal with… On my way out for dinner with girlfriends, feeling rather fabulous in my Avalicious maternity dress, he told me ‘your bump isn’t big enough – it still looks like a beer belly.’ When I stuck it out and stroked it in that pregnant lady way, he relented. But still, a question mark hovered over my fabulous outfit.

So, reader, I put a belt around it. The outfit, that is, not the invisible question mark. I used my favourite pre-pregnancy belt, which has not fit around my waist for a good few weeks, and put it up high under my boobs. It made my belly most definitely look like a pregnancy bump, and upgraded my look from ‘gorgeous dress’ to ‘stylish outfit’.
Inspired by this I dug an old – and previously too big – wrap around coat out of my wardrobe and wore that with the belt above the bump. Very cute, if I say so myself. You could do the same with a wrap cardigan, too.

I suspect I will not be able to wear this look for much longer as my midsection expands in all directions. If you too are still able to squeeze a belt between boobs and bump, and want to highlight your pregnancy status in a rather chic way, I highly recommend this look. Dust off your long forgotten belts, and use ‘em while you can, ladies!

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The Stylist Selection for AW12

Wednesday, October 24th, 2012

A guest post from Personal Shopper and Stylist to the Stars, Kellie Daggett

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Kellie and her daughter Bailey Beau – both looking effortlessly chic.

 

As a fashion stylist and a mummy of 2 little girls, I quickly realised that for a lot of people looking good and putting yourself first soon goes out the window when you suddenly have little people to look after.

Having spent the last 13 years working for some of the top fashion magazines and creating fashion shoots all over the world, entering a new chapter in my life with children meant I had to re-address my role as, primarily a mother,  but also a fashion stylist.

I now pride myself on combining editorial work for some of the top parenting magazines and websites, personal styling / shopping for busy mums, with the school run!  My biggest aim is to offer women the tools, tips and ideas to look and feel their best during the busiest times of their lives. This is the key to not only looking fabulous but to feeling confident, groomed and stylish every day, before, during and after your little bundles arrive.

Whether I’m styling a newly pregnant working mum or a shoot for some of the fab parenting magazines, I get to have the pick of best maternity wear out there. Babes with Babies often features on my shopping lists and in my shoots as the products are simple, classic, stylish and versatile, there will always  be a key product to recommend to readers and clients alike to get us started in creating an easy and simple capsule wardrobe.

So, here is my wish list  from Babes with Babies, London to get you started ….

I am often asked for tips and advice on the working mums pregnancy capsule wardrobe, it’s tough as you don’t want to go out and spend a fortune on clothes you feel you may only wear for a few months, however, there is nothing worse than wandering around in ‘make do’ clothes during a time in your life when you could be blossoming and enjoying your temporary new shape and curves. So pregnant or not, I will always recommend to my clients that they need a good, stylish, crisp white shirt in their capsule wardrobe.

The Holland Park White Shirt, £49, is a fabulous example of this and a key item for night or day. The simple ties at the back mean that this shirt will adapt to your own individual silhouette and can grow with you.

 

The Holland Park Shirt from Bb London

You will feel instantly cool, comfy and chic, teamed with the next key item on my wish list, the Hampstead Village Skinny Jeans, £79. They are made from a comfy elasticated material, an essential for this type of product keeping them snug and tight to your bump and bum! Simple, slimming and stylish teamed with a long length tight fitted plain or breton stripe tee, classic white shirt or flowing light weight bump skimming smock top in an on trend brighter palette, having the skinnier leg will balance out the added weight of your bump and help you look and feel streamlined and chic.

No capsule wardrobe is complete without the little black dress and this will become your best friend when your pregnant for those evenings out, dinner dates and parties, Babes with Babies,  Avalicious Jet Dress, £95 is a stunning, simple classic shift dress. Gone are the days where your bump was hidden beneath an A line tent shape or  billowing smock top, today we embrace the bump and all the it stands for! Style should not be compromised and this dress illustrates that with its clean lines and great cut, simply chic and flattering. Team with your favourite accessories,  such as a full patterned scarf ( think pashmina size) or a chunky statement necklace, great heels/wedges or ballet flats and this will be one of the most versatile pieces in your newly discovered wardrobe.

 

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Finally, it’s great to invest in a really cosy transitional piece that will take you from bump to beyond. For that extra stylish layer invest in a really versatile piece such as Babes with Babies  Pollyanna Coatigan, £129 Both classic, cosy and slimming this would work for a smarter alternative to a coat over a shift dress, but towards the end of your pregnancy and for the heady first few weeks after you give birth this is the perfect cardi to snuggle up in over jeans, leggings or even pyjamas – morning, noon and certainly during the night!

 

Snuggling up with Pollyanna